Is snobbishness something to be cured or is snobbishness a part of who we are and have no control to fix?

When I say snobbishness, I guess I mean being uptight, delving too much in our television fantasies of picture-perfect people, well you get the idea. Can you unlearn being snobby because I'm having huge self identity issues right now.





No stupid questions please.Is snobbishness something to be cured or is snobbishness a part of who we are and have no control to fix?
Snobbishness is a character trait that was developed over time by


your environmental surroundings and upbringing. Once you were


aware of things deep in your subliminal mind you allowed yourself


to be subjected against all that these things represented to you.


You resisted and enhanced the character of ignoring them that we


refer to as being snobbish. You did not want these things about you


and this was your way of controling them. By ignoring and to deny


what they represented to you was to have mastery over them but in


the long run you have taken the process beyond your control to fix,


for the lack of a better word, or maybe I should say, personally repair


this anti-social behavior. You tend to be this way without effort or at


times of being aware of your mood as some would venture to say.


You have already set within your mind the likes and dislikes that


turn this controling system on without you even realizing it because


it has now become so natural for you to do it without a moments


thought or effort. To others you come off that way and now someone


has made it clear to you that you have been analized and need to


seek help. You truly need to see a professional in your area to help


you realize why and what triggers this emotional mood and to receive


help in over coming this mental hangup. It is deep rooted and you


will need help you can trust in over coming it. Even talking to your


minister or taking on a Bible study could be of help but it depends on


your mental state of regulation of acceptance and denial....you do not


want someone you can manipulate and allienate from you by your


actions....good fortunes to you in your quest to be open minded and


getting help from a professional......Is snobbishness something to be cured or is snobbishness a part of who we are and have no control to fix?
In my opinion I believe that yes, you can 'unlearn' being snobby.





I think being snobby isn't really part of a permanent trait of yours so you can get over it. (not you personally, I'm speaking in general lol)


You just need to learn to act better, like not to be judgmental, be more care-free.





I think a snobby attitude is a person not being happy with the way others do things. If you just learn to accept the fact that everyone does things differently, then that may help.





Hope that helped, it's all in my personal opinion lol
Try helping out at a local Women's Shelter, (serving food..ect) Don't volunteer do anything that you will regret, like say..scrubbing dishes. Try going to a homeless shelter..In fact the easiest way to gain some perspective is to ask what other people's living conditions are and if they are happy with them. Some of the poorest people are the happiest. But a lot of people lie and will lie about their happiness, saying that their money, cars,ect. has made them who they are and that they don't need anybody for anything. Snobbishness, or the sense that you are better than others just because of what you have, or having a false sense of sophistication In the end you will die.. we all do. And what you have won't matter. It's who you are that counts, It's the beliefs you uphold that matters. It's the people you meet and the things you learn that you CANT unlearn that matters. Trust me, snobbishness is NOT a part of who you are, because you will NOT be like that forever. You can have control over it if you so choose, but either way, you will either give it up fighting for it, or you can simply realize that you are going to have to have some humble pie sometime, it's best that you humble yourself, than to have others do it for you.
Go try living with the poor and see how people survive with nothing and imperfections. Changing environment will also help you to readjust your behaviour and comfort zone.





Snobbishness is man-made. It can be fixed.
I think it all depends on the person.


some people are naturally snobbish, but some are only influenced by the snobbish people around them. Once they realize how snobbish these people are and how it is affecting themselves they may be able to change.
Sure you can unlearn snobbishness.





Just get cancer or some major disfigurement...and lose all your money...





if someone is snobby to you..ignore them..they have self identity issues.
If you want to appear less snobby think b4 you talk i have the same prob and i read so...ner but you prob wont notice the change anyway
Yes you can fix it, the cure is simple, turn off your TV and read a book. omg it's magic...